If you love spanking, you can break sexual monotony with holiday-themed scenes and games.
Like everything in sex, if it’s consensual and desired by both parties, spanking can be a mental and emotional release. Additionally, it can be a therapeutic realm to explore trust and surrender in a power dynamic.
If you’re exploring BDSM, you may have heard the term Spanksgiving before, which is celebrated during November and the entire Holiday season. Since a specific date is no limitation for an intimate encounter, you can use these spanking scene ideas any time of the year.
Inspired by Ms. Elle X, these are 10 holiday-inspired spanking ideas to get kinky during the Christmas season.
Choose a date to begin a series of daily spanking countdown sessions.
You may use your palms, flogger, whip, paddle, or the implement you choose. Pick a starting number for your countdown, for example, twenty-five. You can start day one with 25 spanks removing one spank every day until the final day of the game.
Eggnog or Flogged
Select a holiday-themed film and a cue word or phrase that appears often in the film. Every time the cue word or phrase appears in the movie, you must either take a shot of eggnog or receive one swag of the flogger. To add some variation to the game, you can choose whether to take the shot or the swat every time the cue word is mentioned or change the kinky options to whatever seems more fun to you at the moment.
Musical Memory Bondage
Have someone restrain you to a chair with the method you both like the best and play a holiday tune. You must pause the music and have the partner restrained finish the lyrics of the song you played. If the restrained player guesses the song correctly, they receive a scene or reward. If they guess incorrectly, they receive a punishment or a funishment, whatever suits your dynamic best.
A punishment should take place if the aim of the scene is to practice discipline and correction (something that the bottom player doesn’t really enjoy but has consented to). On the other hand, a funishment should take place if the aim is to give pleasure (something that the person enjoys). Then they must bring the other player to climax with whatever action they both agree upon.
Gingerbread Dress Up
Dress each other’s naked bodies with edibles, sweets, and candy, like a gingerbread cookie. You can get creative and use whipped cream, strawberries, cherries, chocolate, syrups, etc. Additionally, you can turn this scene into both a sploshing and impact play game. You can get your ass smacked for being too messy or not messy enough. Afterward, you can take a shower together.
Santa’s Lap Dance
Ask your dominant aka Santa for the gifts you want this year… and convince them you’ve been naughty enough to get them with a lap dance. You can also follow it with any sadistic acts Santa requests you to perform.
Choose an exciting object to hide in a stocking. Blindfolded, one of the players must feel the stocking and guess what object is inside. If they guess correctly, they receive a scene or a reward of their partner’s choosing. Anything that brings both parties to climax. If the blindfolded person guesses the object incorrectly, they must get spanks, flogger swats, or remote-controlled toy vibrations.
Wish you a great scene!
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